How To Make Your Ex Reach Out First
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How to make your ex to reach out first. I know how frustrating it can be to sit there, hoping to hear from them, analyzing every possible sign, and wondering if they’re even thinking about you.
The silence can feel deafening, but there's a way to handle this that can actually increase the chances that your ex will be the one to break the silence.
First off, you need to understand why it’s important that your ex reaches out first.
When your ex is the one to make that move, it shifts the dynamic in your favor.
It shows that they’re thinking about you, that they miss you, and that they’re willing to take a step toward reconnecting.
This is powerful because it means you’re no longer the one chasing them, and that shift can set the tone for how things progress from there.
But how do you get your ex to reach out without making it look like you’re trying to manipulate the situation?
The answer lies in what I often talk about: the no-contact rule.
I know you’ve probably heard about no contact before, but it’s not just about ignoring your ex to make them miss you. It’s about giving both you and your ex the space to reset.
When you step back, you’re allowing the dust to settle, and that’s when clarity starts to happen—both for you and for them.
During this time, it’s crucial that you focus on yourself. That might sound cliché, but here’s the reality: people are drawn to those who seem to have their life together.
If your ex sees that you’re thriving, that you’re out there living your best life without them, it’s going to make them think twice about the decision to break up. They might start to wonder if they made a mistake or if they’ve lost someone truly valuable.
Now, you might be thinking, “But what if my ex doesn’t care? What if they’re happier without me?”
Those thoughts are completely normal, but they’re also part of the fear that comes with rejection.
The truth is, breakups often create a false sense of certainty—your ex might feel confident in their decision at first, but as time goes on, they begin to question it.
That’s where no contact works its magic. The longer you stay silent, the more your ex has to fill in the gaps. They start to wonder what you’re doing, who you’re with, and why you haven’t reached out.
And here’s a key point: the more your ex wonders about you, the more likely they are to reach out. Curiosity is a powerful motivator.
It’s human nature to want to know what someone is up to, especially if that someone used to be an important part of your life.
When your ex sees that you’re not desperately trying to get their attention, it flips a switch in their mind and can make your ex reach out to you first. Suddenly, they’re the ones wondering if you’ve moved on or if you’re happy without them.
So, how do you reinforce this? By truly focusing on your own growth for starters but this video provides more specifics.
This is where you get to work on yourself—not for your ex, but for you. Whether that means picking up a new hobby, getting in shape, or simply spending more time with friends, the key is to genuinely improve your life. When your ex does check in, they’ll see that you’re not sitting around waiting for them. Instead, they’ll see someone who’s stronger, more confident, and possibly even more attractive than before.
And when your ex does reach out, how you respond is just as important. You don’t want to jump back into old patterns or make it seem like you’ve just been waiting for their call. Instead, take things slow. Let them come to you, and don’t rush to rekindle the relationship immediately. This is your chance to set boundaries and show that you’re not going to settle for anything less than what you deserve.
Remember, getting your ex to reach out first isn’t about playing games or manipulating them. It’s about giving them the space to realize what they had with you, and in that space, allowing them to feel the natural pull to reconnect. If you’ve done the work on yourself, if you’ve truly taken the time to grow and improve, that pull is going to be strong.
So, as you go through this process, be patient with yourself. Trust that by stepping back and focusing on your own life, you’re not only giving your ex the opportunity to miss you, but you’re also putting yourself in the best possible position to either reconnect or move forward in a healthier, more fulfilling way.
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