Expelled from BYU for Having Sex - Star Athlete vs Student | Kelly Trust | Ep. 1459
Is there a double standard at BYU when divvying out punishments to athletes vs students who break the honor code? Mormon Stories producer and co-host Carah Burrell takes the reins on this intense episode as lead interviewer of our guest Kelly Trust as we take a deep dive into answering that question! Finally feeling freed from the constraints that kept her quiet for too long, Kelly describes the confusing, unhealthy sexual messages around her body that plagued her youth, the relationship with a star BYU athlete that led to her expulsion from the school while the player stayed, and the faith crisis that ensued after reading the CES Letter.
Content warning on this episode for strong sexual themes and profanity.
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Show Notes:
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CES Letter: https://cesletter.org/
“Leaving the Saints” by Marth Beck: https://www.amazon.com/Leaving-Saints...
“Braving the Wilderness” by Brene Brown: https://www.amazon.com/Bren%C3%A9-Bro...
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Time Codes:
00:00 Introduction
05:30 Kelly’s intentions
08:00 Kelly’s early years
10:20 Hymenectomy
14:05 Early masturbation
18:12 Mission years in Paraguay
25:00 Mormon lifestyle
27:00 Moving to Utah, Baptism. Sexual interviews, fear. “Worthiness”
42:30 Perfectionist (and fakeness) Mormon culture in Sandy, UT
46:08 Dating Mormon boys in high school. “Boy crazy” “Slut” “Heathen”
52:48 Questions Kelly was asked by bishops
1:03:14 Has sex at 17, told by Bishop she’s a “Sex addict”
1:07:18 The roles and responsibilities of Mormon girls and chastity
1:23:40 “Treatment” for “sex addiction”. Moving to Utah.
1:32:58 Telling dad she had sex, Utah culture
1:38:55 learning from dad sexual sin next to murder. “I was all but killing people.”
1:45:06 What would she tell that little girl now?
1:51:03 Perceptions about God, the spirit, Satan and worthiness/emotions.
2:00:52 Family dynamics, perfectionism
2:15:42 Wearing the scarlet A
2:22:19 BYU -- the only option. The “Honor Code”
2:27:38 Being Friends with BYU Football players
2:40:50 - BYU Athlete Honor Code Hypocrisy / Sham
2:55:44 “Repentance”, Honor Code discussions, interviewed about his penis
3:15:55 Getting suspended from BYU for Honor Code violations
3:27:02 - BYU Athlete honor code hypocrisy, getting kicked out of BYU, athlete protected
3:56:00 Kelly unfaithful in marriage
4:06:06 Begining to question the church
4:33:56 Parents, pattern of self-hatred, time wasted
4:49:05 Getting healthy, speaking out
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