In addition to what l've said in the reel- don't forget to use condoms, And take. your, time. Sex isn't just penetration - and pleasure abounds in erogenous zones other than the genitals too!
For some people it may take a few attempts at penetrative intercourse before you actually feel relaxed and comfortable enough to do it, and that's ok!
Lots of people also have questions about the hymen and bleeding during first time p-in-v sex— please understand that some people with vaginas may bleed the first time they have vaginal intercourse but some don't— the amount of hymenal tissue can vary from person to person and some people are even born without a hymen. Also, a lot of the time pain and even bleeding durina first time sex is the result of insufficient lubrication and vaginal abrasion, not the
"hymen tearing", so be gentle as you try things out, and use lube!
And it's great for both partners to be able to communicate honestly and openly through the process. Making sure that you both are feeling comfortable throughout is so important.
If you experience persistent or recurrent pain during sex— please see a doctor. Treatments exist for pain conditions like vaginismus and vulvodynia - so please do seek help if you think you might experience these.
Literally get some version of this question daily about whether sex hurts the first time - and more generally about whether pain is just par for the course during sex for people with vaginas— so hope this is helpful!
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